Journal #25

Giving is a universal action that I think everyone understands. In America alone, we seem to give on many occasions, even if for only shallow occasions. I think giving can be a good thing and a bad thing. It all depends on the person's heart when they give. For some occasions like holidays where gifts are exchanged, I feel that some people see giving as an obligation rather than a privilege. Especially Christmas, I know a lot of people who think buying and giving presents to their families is more of a chore. I personally think you should be excited and look forward to blessing someone you love with a gift. To me, it all depends on the status of your heart when you give. You can give someone the most expensive gift in the world, but with a bitter heart. A gift should be given joyfully and sincerely to the person receiving it. One of the five love languages is gift receiving. This is actually the top language in which I feel loved. That is just how I am personally wired. I love the thoughtfulness of a gift and find it really special when someone takes the time to think about what you would like and enjoy. Gifts are usually a very positive thing, but I feel that sometimes they tend to distract. One of these would be Christmas. I hate when people focus so much on gifts and what they want for Christmas that they completely forget the real reason for the season, the celebration for Jesus' birth. I feel like a lot of holidays seem to be revolved around gifts instead of the real meaning. Another one that is overlooked is Easter. It really is sad how people waste their time eating candy and hunting for plastic eggs instead of remembering the resurrection of Jesus Christ. Overall I think gifts are a very good thing and should continue to be given, but with the right state of heart.