Journal #31

Gossip seems to be everywhere, especially in high school. I personally think that gossips is more popular with girls than guys, but I know it goes both ways, just in different ways. My definition of gossip is saying things and talking about a person in a way that you would not if they were standing right next to you listening. Gossip can be very destructive and it rarely builds people up if at all. Mean Girls is a popular teen movie that pretty much every female on the planet has watched several times or have at least heard of it and its quotes. This movie explains how the girl world works and its influence from gossip. In the movie, the major conflict revolves around the Burn Book. This is a book that the three main "mean girls" Gretchen, Karen, and the leader Regina George have gossiped in for the past few years. They would rip pictures out of their yearbook, glue them in the Burn Book, and then write mean comments under them. Some of these comments are "She made out with a hot dog" or "He's too gay to function". Obviously, very degrading and rude comments that no one was suppose to ever read. When the Burn Book is printed, and every girl in the junior class reads it, the girls go crazy. It turns from the girl world to "animal world". The comments create mass chaos and break out fights between all of the girls and even some of the teachers. This is an extreme case in which gossip was destructive, but even little cases of gossip are still effective. Another thing about gossip is that it is usually not completely true. Most of it is exaggerated and also combined with rumors. These little white lies tied in with personal information can cause more damage than you could imagine. You never know how your words will affect others to use them wisely. If you are not a hundred percent sure it is true information, or if it is not your information to tell, do not share it at all.

Journal #30

Civil rights is a historical movement that has been around forever. One of the main civil rights argued and that comes to mind, is voting. This was an issue that started when the first settlers came to the Americas. At first, only white men were given the right to vote, leaving everybody else out. The Civil War was monumental and granted the African American men to be allowed to participate in voting. Women were last to be given the right to vote, after proving for decades that they were more than capable and qualified. These civil rights are a part of our nation's history and not so much applicable to today's society. An issue that is attempting to become a civil right today is the right to gay marriage. This has become a major political issue that has been heating up in the last few years. Since January of 2013, nine states have legalized gay marriage. These include Connecticut, Iowa, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, and Washington. The real beef of this sandwich is “is gay marriage a civil right?” I personally do not agree with this and do not think it is ones civil right to marry someone of the same gender. I say this first off because I was not raised to believe this. Secondly, if we make gay marriage legal, then it is more than likely that someone will want to push this even further. What if someone wanted to marry more than one person? Or what if someone said they were in love with their dog and wanted to marry it. The second one was extreme, I know, but my point is where would the government stop? My fear is if you open up this door, it will in return open up many more issues similar to and cause other people to try and push the system. In conclusion, civil rights of today have grown much more complex and controversial than the ones in our country’s past.

Journal #29

Nature is a very powerful force that is completely out of our control. If I could control nature, I would probably make winter nonexistent and have a pleasant weather of 75 and sunny with a light breeze, all year round. There would also never be horrors of tornadoes, earthquakes, or hurricanes. In my experience, all of these nature driven events have only caused destruction and turmoil. The most recent of these, would be Hurricane Sandy. Hurricane Sandy came just a few months ago and effected the lives of those living in New York. You always hear about hurricanes in the south around the Bahamas and other islands, etc. but it was quite different to hear of one so close and destructive to the United States. I think a hurricane would be one of the most drastic experiences out of the three I mentioned, not saying that the other two are not. Something about a hurricane just seems even more horrifying. Probably because I have never experienced a hurricane first hand. Living in Illinois, we are no strangers to tornadoes and have been effected by them multiple times. We have even witnessed the effects of the after effects of an earthquake. I remember this happened when I was in eighth grade. I woke up to the walls shaking and I was so confused. I tried to run to my parents room but it was extremely difficult in my shaking and unstable state. A hurricane is completely foreign to me though. I can not imagine what it would be like to have to leave my own house and climb up on a roof because of the excessive flooding. Or have to wait for search and rescue to find me after the hurricane is over. I would be absolutely terrified. The only good thing about a tragic event like a massive earthquake or hurricane is that it brings a community together. After a crisis like this, it is so inspiring to see people all around the world join together and show their support.

Journal #28

In our sociology class, we have actually been studying different cultures and societies etc. We just switched from psychology, which is more individualized behaviors, and now in sociology, we observe groups of people, like a culture. For a project, we had to research a different culture and create a power point and then present it in front of the class. This included the group's culture, geography, ethnocentric view, and their cultural relativism. The group of people, my project group was assigned, was the San. The San is also known as the Bushmen. The San and their culture are completely different than ours. One of the differences is that they live in a desert climate. Because of their climate, they have to wear very little clothing in order to stay cool. Also living in the desert, water can sometimes be quite hard to find. When the San people are faced with a drought, they do whatever they can in order to keep themselves hydrated. This could involve sucking the moisture out of plant or creating a sip well. A sip well is a method that uses straws and an empty ostrich egg to gather water out of the ground. I could not imagine getting my water this way. But in their situation, you do what you got to do. The San people are a hunter and gathering society, much different than ours. Yes, we do have farmers, but most people go to the grocery store when they need food or one of the thousands of restaurants we have. Another different between our societies is the roles that the people play. In our society, children are expected to go to school and get an education. In the San society, they see the kids job is to simply play and be happy. One of the major differences I found with the San society and ours, was the role that the women played. In our society, women have the same freedoms as men, but men are still seen superior. This is the opposite. The San people believe the women is superior and serves as the leader of the household and makes all important decisions. I found it very interesting learning about the San culture and it made me very appreciative for my own.

Journal #27

I could not imagine being miles away from home fighting to defend our country. The isolation would be unbearable for me. I know I would not be by myself because there would be other soldiers with me, but emotionally and mentally I would feel very alone. I am the kind of person who does not do well alone. I mean I can go to camp or a retreat without my family for awhile and be fine but to be away from my family for the amount of time that our soldiers are would be heart breaking for me. I am looking at a college that is eight hours away from home and this does not bother me. I know I am away from my family but I also know that I will be able to visit them and have the time to keep in contact with them through social media and cell phones. In the war though, there is no turning back. If you get home sick you cannot just drop everything and drive eight hours home. That is not how it works. From what I understand they do not have much free time to sit around and text their family or friends. I have such high respect for the people that serve our country because they do things that I know I could never do. The people fighting for our country are so incredibly strong not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. They never put themselves first. They leave all of their families and friends behind to do what they do. They miss birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, and more in order to fight for what is right. They might even miss the birth of their own child. They do not even know that when they leave, if they will be coming back. The way they are so selfless and loyal amazes me. Another thing is that they do all of this voluntarily because it is something they love.  The men and women fighting for our country are truly heroes.

Journal #26

Something I experienced that turned out differently than I thought it would was my first year of cross country. Every year I had done volleyball in the fall and had never run cross country in my life. Reasons led  me to try it though and I was eager to try it out. I had run a lot over summer and was very diligent to my training prior to the season starting. When we had our first practice, I knew I had given myself a good foundation to begin training and figured I would not be the slowest girl on the team. I ended up being the fastest one! It was a complete surprise to me, but also very satisfying for all of my hard work had paid off. This only reassured me that I had made the right decision in choosing cross country over volleyball. Like I said, cross country was completely new to me. I had run track for years, but cross country was so different. The amount of miles we ran in track cannot even compare to the miles and miles we run in cross country. Because my body was not used to this much running, I developed shin splints. Being new, I was very vulnerable to getting them and I did everything I could to try to get rid of them. They developed right before our first meet at Rochester. I remember icing them minutes before my race and then slipping on my shin compressor for when I ran. The shin splits only got worse though and I ended up having to go to physical therapy to treat them and was out for almost a month. This was not ideal whatsoever. When I pictured myself running cross country, having an injury that affects my entire season was not apart of the vision. I am thankful however because I was able to heal from my shin splints in time to run at Regionals and Sectionals. Overall the experience was very humbling, even though completely unexpected. I am all the more excited for next years season and really seeing what I can do without an injury holding me back.

Journal #25

Giving is a universal action that I think everyone understands. In America alone, we seem to give on many occasions, even if for only shallow occasions. I think giving can be a good thing and a bad thing. It all depends on the person's heart when they give. For some occasions like holidays where gifts are exchanged, I feel that some people see giving as an obligation rather than a privilege. Especially Christmas, I know a lot of people who think buying and giving presents to their families is more of a chore. I personally think you should be excited and look forward to blessing someone you love with a gift. To me, it all depends on the status of your heart when you give. You can give someone the most expensive gift in the world, but with a bitter heart. A gift should be given joyfully and sincerely to the person receiving it. One of the five love languages is gift receiving. This is actually the top language in which I feel loved. That is just how I am personally wired. I love the thoughtfulness of a gift and find it really special when someone takes the time to think about what you would like and enjoy. Gifts are usually a very positive thing, but I feel that sometimes they tend to distract. One of these would be Christmas. I hate when people focus so much on gifts and what they want for Christmas that they completely forget the real reason for the season, the celebration for Jesus' birth. I feel like a lot of holidays seem to be revolved around gifts instead of the real meaning. Another one that is overlooked is Easter. It really is sad how people waste their time eating candy and hunting for plastic eggs instead of remembering the resurrection of Jesus Christ. Overall I think gifts are a very good thing and should continue to be given, but with the right state of heart.